Monday, September 23, 2013
5TH LETTER WELLINGTON
This
week has been SO hard. It has finally hit me what missionaries mean
when they say this is hard. Everysingle thing i do is for the benefit of
others. there is no time to stop and do something for myself (except
for on mondays... but even then im still helping and serving others) I
broke down the other day for a million different reasons. But one of
those reasons was because I cant ever just stop for 5 min and do
something for myself (like draw or take a picture, or check our mailbox,
and sometimes we dont even have time to eat cuz we have appts to get to
-but dont worry... i think its a good thing because i eat SO much at
members houses) But ANYWAY I dont even have time to read the scriptres
for myself. If i am reading the scriptures i am reading and looking for
scriptures to use in our lessons. And its hard too because we do so much
to prepare for people or help people and most of the time they arent
there for our return appts or they just dont have time for us. so lame
sauce.
But i am so blessed. In the mtc i said so many prayers to heavenly
father listing all the things i wanted in a companion and everything i
prayed for i got. My companion sister carter is SO much fun and we get
along SO well. And even though we have so much fun she pushes me to be a
hardworking missionary. She is great though and there isnt ever a
moment where i am not laughing my head off with her.
So a few days ago some guy from the quorm of the 70 came down and
gave a talk at some missionary conference. During his talk he talked
about people having dreams they saw two missionaries and then that next
day they saw the missionaries they saw in their dream, or they had
dreams that they needed to meet with the missionaries and then the next
day missionaries came by. idk a tom of stuff. So while he was talking
about this i said a short simple prayer in my head asking for Heavenly
Father for an experience like that. So later that day me and my
companion were going around visiting investegators and she wanted to
stop by and say hi to this one investegator that she hadnt visited in
months so long story short we sknocked on his door and he answered the
door and told us he had a dream that he died and God asked him if he was
ready to meet his maker and then he woke up and wanted to see the
missionaries and he prayed to god that he would see us. so then later
that day we just so happened to stop by. it was so cool.
ok i only have a few minuites left... the library is shutting down early... grr i hate this. i wish i had all day to email.
By the way i am in upper hutt... thats the area im in haha just so you know.
ok for my mission plaqe i want ether 12:27 and ill attach my picture:)haha ok I love you all!
ok i only have a few minuites left... the library is shutting down early... grr i hate this. i wish i had all day to email.
By the way i am in upper hutt... thats the area im in haha just so you know.
ok for my mission plaqe i want ether 12:27 and ill attach my picture:)haha ok I love you all!
4TH LETTER WELLINGTON NEW ZEALAND
OK. so all those times we went
on those family bike rides... i have learned that i dont ride way behind
everyone cuz i like to stop and take pictures... its because im freakin
slow. haha. The 500 dollar bike we got is really really nice. My
companion is really jealous and always tries to ride it.... haha. But we
bike EVERYWHERE. I got a new Zeland DL but i am way to afraid to
drive... and my companion got her DL taken away cuz she crashed a few
times... so neither of us can drive, so we just bike everywhere. My legs
are going to be so toned when i get back;)
This mission thing isnt as hard as i thought it would be. My
companions name is sister carter, and the first night i cried myself to
sleep becuase i thought she was going to be really strict and i was
going to have a really hard time with her... but i LOVE her so much and
we get along so well. She workds me really hard. we are out talking to
people from 11-9 every single day but its fun. I love the people here
they are all so kind and loving. But very honest. We were at this one
investigators house and they told my roomate her face looked really ugly
and she doesnt know how to put on make up. So she brought out all this
expensive make up and put it on her and let her keep it.It is so beautiful here. I just wanna take pictures of everything but biking and taking pictures is really hard... especially for me (im mentally challenged on my bike...haha) I dont think you realize how slow i am. My companion is always SO far ahead of me... its embarassing:)
So the food. On my first day we had 5 appointments with 5 different investigators and every single home we went to they offered me a cup of milo. I thought it was so good until i foundout what it was. It tasted like a watered down hot chocolate... but dont be fooled. its malted barley with sugar. i dont drink it any more. its groddie. They eat a TON of eggs here. they have some sort of egg side dish with every meal, but i have some how been able to avoid eating them the whole time ive been here. but then again ive only been out for 5 days. Every morning i eat a bowl of yogurt and meusli (i think thats how you spell it.... but what it is is granola, and it is the BEST GRANOLA i have ever eaten in my whole entire life. I will have to send you some. Another thing i eat a lot of is cheese. the cheese here is so delicious. Their milk is really creamy it tastes like half and half. I eat a TON of nutella and peanut butter sandwiched. I eat lemons like nobodys business (cuz they are growing everywhere around here) and the thing i eat the most of is chocolate. I eat so much chocolate its not even funny. Its SO good here too. 70% of my diet consists of chocolate. But its so weird. ever since ive gotten out here i eat SO much. way way way more than my companion, like 3xs the amount of food as my companion. no joke.... and ist not like shes super small or anything haha. so get ready for me to come back fat:)
But nah i excersize every day and i bike everywhere (which is why i think i eat so much)
So our investigators... we have a ton of investigators. I taught this atheiest lady last week.... its just super hard though cuz she believes in evolution and that prayers that people say arent answered by god they are answered by good vibes (idk its really hard to explain haha) and i dont know what to say exactly... its hard teaching someone who doesnt believe in god period.
This other investigator named suzie. She is this older lady and her husband went missing for 3 weeks. They were together and then they got in a fight so he moved out for a few weeks and then one day he just went missing. nothing was taken from the house and he wasnt answering any calls and the police have been trying to track him down for a long time and they havent been able to find anything and suzie has been really really really sad. So yesterday she came to church and the elders gave her a blessing and in the blessing the elder blessed that everything will turn out ok. And i was really worried when he said that cuz 3 weeks is a long time and i was sure he was dead haha. so this morning we got a text saying that he showed up on her door step. He was out with friends for 3 weeks. So crazy.
So the other day we got this guy to commit to baptism. Rememebr how i was before my mission how i was so against being pushy with that kindda stuff.... well ive been completely brainwashed and i want every one to be baptized now.
New Zealalnd is the perfect mission for me. EVERY SINGLE PERSON HERE OWNS A CAT. And they walk around everywhere. Ive probably seen around 500 cats atleast since ive been here haha. Its wonderful.
Right when i got here my companion, joking around asked me to talk in church, and i took her up on her offer! It was suppose to be her speaking assignment but i wanted to give a talk so bad. I gave a 15 min talk in church on putting our trust in christ. I love talking so much ive already been assigned to talk at some kids baptism next week and i have to give a talk in front of this guy from the quorm of the 70. i get so excited when i get speaking assignments.
I love you guys so much and i miss you so much. i have so many crazy stories to tell you guys but i dont have heaps of time. Ive been trying to write you but i dont ever have time... but i do have one letter i need to send you guys... so if i can ever get stamps...
Send me some black leggings. i have one pair and i wear them every day and they are starting to wear out. Ohh and send me some pepper spray too. its really creepy around here.... especially at night. I hate our flat. its so scary and old and its down this really scary street. but the lord will protect me. i love you guys a ton!
Uhh. ok put all of these on my blog. so people know im alive.
Did you get my pictures yet?
3RD LETTER NEW ZEALAND MTC
MOM. You hate me. You didn’t even email meL i still love you
though and care about you guys so much. Last night we were watching some
devotional at the provo mtc (i totally saw Cameron foster in the video) but elder
nielson was talking and he was saying how we need to pray and ask Heavenly
Father to send us for specific people who have passed on to help us with our
mission. So then I got thinking about it... isn’t it weird that grandpa died
like right when i left for my mission? I know he will be there to help me
throughout this journey.
I think i jinxed myself last week when i said i don’t know
why everyone says a mission is so hard. Right after my email me and my
companion had to go teach a progressive investigator... and we did so bad. My
companion doesn’t even talk. It was just me talking the whole time and when she
does talk it doesn’t make sense and she teaches false doctrine. So my teacher
(who was the progressive investigator) got really mad at us (mostly her).
Because we are a sucky companionship. Haha then he made me tell her everything
that bothers me about her and I was yelling at her telling her how sucky of a
teacher she was... haha it was so bad and I was so frustrated. This past week
has been so hard and stressful. There hasn’t been a single moment where I haven’t
been on the verge of tears.
Tomorrow I leave for wellington and I am so scared. Its
weird not knowing who im going to be spending the next 12 weeks with/ where im going to be sleeping/ wether
or not im going to be good at this whole thing. I am so scared. Pray for me.
Tongans are so strange. I thought they were cool at first
but the more I am around them the more weirded out I get haha. Like they don’t brush
their teeth, they haven’t showered once since theyve been here, they blow their
nose into their hands... haha its so weird.
Me and my American roommate (sister Bromley-whos going to
wellington too) are really good friends. We stay up really late every night and
just talk. We both just love talking and once we start talking we cannot stop
talking. I love her so much. She reminds me of Tasia Kimball alot. She is so
fun and everyone LOVES her. I am so blessed to have her as a roommate and im
begging heavenly father to let me be companions with her before I come home.
I wish i had more time to write. I only had 30 minuites to
write you today. But im writing a letter. I would have sent you a letter sooner
but they don’t give us stamps in here. I love you so much. I hope everything is
going ok with everything. Hey can you send me another skirt extender and more
undershirts.
Ohh and I got like 30 free pairs of silky garment bottoms. They
are the old ones too so they fit really well!!!
2ND LETTER NEW ZEALAND MTC
OK I LOVE THE TONGANS. Their lives are so different from
ours. So in the MTC i room with 3 other girls. Theres me my companion who is
tongan and Sister Bromley who is from Utah and then her companion who is also
from tonga. Our companions speak very little English but they are the sweetest,
loving and happiest people I will ever meet. So I just learned there were 17 of
us that came from the united states. We are the only Americans. The rest of the
people here are from tonga, somoa, or austrailia... but out of the 70 people we
are here with in the mtc atleast 60% of them are from tonga. Most of them speak
little to no English so its pretty safe to say that ive picked up a lot of
tongan. Im not fluent but im getting there;)
The first thing that happened when me and sister Bromley met
our tongan companions is they asked us if we knew any of the people they know
from America. I don’t think they realize how big America is. I think its safe
to say though that i have learned more in this past week than i have learned in
my whole life. And most of what ive learned is about the tongan people. Here are
some of the things Ive learned are:
-Kissing is NOT allowed in tonga. If you kissed a boy you
are not allowed to turn in your papers to serve a mission (and no they are not
kidding, me and sister Bromley have had many deep discussions about this with
them). When i first asked my companion how many guys shes kissed she said “OH
MY GOSH NOBODY!!! But i have seen two people kiss”. Not make out... but kiss. They said they consider each other
brothers and sisters and so kissing them is a BIG no no.
-They have absolutely no filter. The other night me and
sister Bromley were sitting in our beds and one of the other sisters was over
in our room going through sister Bromleys pictures of her family and she
stopped and said- “OH MY GOSH SISTER BROMLEY (she has a really deep voice... it
kindda sounds like a man) YOUR FAMILY IS SO BEAUTIFUL WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU!?!?
YOU ARE SO UGLY!”. And she was SO serious. Ok for one Sister Bromley is SO
beautiful... idk what was up with that Tongans eyes but second of all if I ever
said that to anyone in America... They would probably go shoot themselves. It
was so funny. We DIE of laughter every time we think about it. And they call
eachother fat all the time.. and they mean it.
-At lunch all the Tongans sit don with a stack of about 8
slices of bread on their plates. In between every two slices of bread is
literally half a stic of butter. They probably eat about 3 sticks of butter for
every meal.
- They have never seen broccoli before so when they saw it
they were freaking out
-Showering while you are on your period BAD. If you shower
while you are on your period you will not be able to have kids (lets act like
adults here...)
-New Zeland food is so INCREDIBLE (especially their chocolate)
it puts American food to shame. The one tongan that called my roommate ugly has
spent 200 dollars on food in the vending machine within the past 4 days... and
no she isn’t fat.
-they call whiteout liquid, rainboots gumboots(that sounds
so stupid), they have never head the term French fries
-21 is a big age for them because its the age were they can
get married(?)
-They laugh at
everything in the whole world and they all have these ginormous laughs that
make you laugh. There has not been a single second that i have been here where
i haven’t been happy, and i really believe it is because of the Tongans and
their good sprits.
-They are so lazy its not even funny.
-They have never mailed a letter
-They say only married ladies use tampons (lets be mature
here...)
-In NZ, and everywere else, they don’t have breakfast foods.
We have spaghetti for breakfast all the time.
-They eat dogs and cats all the time
-Sister Finau (the tongan thats my roommate that isn’t my
companion) Gave up her cell phone for a whole year before her mission in order
to prepare
-They know a lot but they are really bad teachers
-They don’t wear swimsuits in tonga they are very immodest.
They wear clothes to swim.
There are a ton of other cool things i have learned but i don’t
have time to write about it all...
I gave a talk in church on Sunday. And i did a really good
job. I have come to realize that I LOVE talking and im pretty dang good at it
too. Me and my companion have been teaching a fake investigatior the past week
and it is SO frustrating because she doesn’t know English that well and when
she does talk to our investigator she is just spitting out facts and it sounds
like she is reading out of a text book. And she talks really quiet and you cant
really understand her wen she talks so i hate having her talk... i feel bad for
saying that but its just not one of her strengths. So the past two lessons ive
been the only one teaching. But its ok. I LOVE TEACHING and im really good at
it too? I thought I was really bad but after a few practices ive gotten really
good. Im so excited to get out there and teach for the next few months!
People always said
that a mission was hard... i don’t know what they are talking about. I haven’t experienced
the hard yet i guess. I am never tired. I go to bed at 930 ish every night
(except last night me and sis Bromley stayed up till 1 talking)... and i wake
up at 5:30 every morning. And its the weirdest thing I am NEVER tired when i
wake up. Instead I am SO full of energy! I love it here. I love it with all my
heart. I thought i would hate the feeling of being in church 24/7 but i
actually have come to LOVE it.
Ok my blow dryer. Catches spits out fire every time i turn
it on. I think it has something to do with the outlets here...
The presidents wife told me I have to take off all my rings.
GAHHHHHHHH. Someone get here and shoot me.
I love it here and i have met some of the most incredible
and most amazing people out here. This is awesome and I hope all of you (brooke
and jack...and hopefully alec) decide to go on a mission one day. This is the
best thing ever.
MEH there is so much more i want to say but I have no time.
I will write again next weekJ
OK I LOVE THE TONGANS. Their lives are so different from
ours. So in the MTC i room with 3 other girls. Theres me my companion who is
tongan and Sister Bromley who is from Utah and then her companion who is also
from tonga. Our companions speak very little English but they are the sweetest,
loving and happiest people I will ever meet. So I just learned there were 17 of
us that came from the united states. We are the only Americans. The rest of the
people here are from tonga, somoa, or austrailia... but out of the 70 people we
are here with in the mtc atleast 60% of them are from tonga. Most of them speak
little to no English so its pretty safe to say that ive picked up a lot of
tongan. Im not fluent but im getting there;)
The first thing that happened when me and sister Bromley met
our tongan companions is they asked us if we knew any of the people they know
from America. I don’t think they realize how big America is. I think its safe
to say though that i have learned more in this past week than i have learned in
my whole life. And most of what ive learned is about the tongan people. Here are
some of the things Ive learned are:
-Kissing is NOT allowed in tonga. If you kissed a boy you
are not allowed to turn in your papers to serve a mission (and no they are not
kidding, me and sister Bromley have had many deep discussions about this with
them). When i first asked my companion how many guys shes kissed she said “OH
MY GOSH NOBODY!!! But i have seen two people kiss”. Not make out... but kiss. They said they consider each other
brothers and sisters and so kissing them is a BIG no no.
-They have absolutely no filter. The other night me and
sister Bromley were sitting in our beds and one of the other sisters was over
in our room going through sister Bromleys pictures of her family and she
stopped and said- “OH MY GOSH SISTER BROMLEY (she has a really deep voice... it
kindda sounds like a man) YOUR FAMILY IS SO BEAUTIFUL WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU!?!?
YOU ARE SO UGLY!”. And she was SO serious. Ok for one Sister Bromley is SO
beautiful... idk what was up with that Tongans eyes but second of all if I ever
said that to anyone in America... They would probably go shoot themselves. It
was so funny. We DIE of laughter every time we think about it. And they call
eachother fat all the time.. and they mean it.
-At lunch all the Tongans sit don with a stack of about 8
slices of bread on their plates. In between every two slices of bread is
literally half a stic of butter. They probably eat about 3 sticks of butter for
every meal.
- They have never seen broccoli before so when they saw it
they were freaking out
-Showering while you are on your period BAD. If you shower
while you are on your period you will not be able to have kids (lets act like
adults here...)
-New Zeland food is so INCREDIBLE (especially their chocolate)
it puts American food to shame. The one tongan that called my roommate ugly has
spent 200 dollars on food in the vending machine within the past 4 days... and
no she isn’t fat.
-they call whiteout liquid, rainboots gumboots(that sounds
so stupid), they have never head the term French fries
-21 is a big age for them because its the age were they can
get married(?)
-They laugh at
everything in the whole world and they all have these ginormous laughs that
make you laugh. There has not been a single second that i have been here where
i haven’t been happy, and i really believe it is because of the Tongans and
their good sprits.
-They are so lazy its not even funny.
-They have never mailed a letter
-They say only married ladies use tampons (lets be mature
here...)
-In NZ, and everywere else, they don’t have breakfast foods.
We have spaghetti for breakfast all the time.
-They eat dogs and cats all the time
-Sister Finau (the tongan thats my roommate that isn’t my
companion) Gave up her cell phone for a whole year before her mission in order
to prepare
-They know a lot but they are really bad teachers
-They don’t wear swimsuits in tonga they are very immodest.
They wear clothes to swim.
There are a ton of other cool things i have learned but i don’t
have time to write about it all...
I gave a talk in church on Sunday. And i did a really good
job. I have come to realize that I LOVE talking and im pretty dang good at it
too. Me and my companion have been teaching a fake investigatior the past week
and it is SO frustrating because she doesn’t know English that well and when
she does talk to our investigator she is just spitting out facts and it sounds
like she is reading out of a text book. And she talks really quiet and you cant
really understand her wen she talks so i hate having her talk... i feel bad for
saying that but its just not one of her strengths. So the past two lessons ive
been the only one teaching. But its ok. I LOVE TEACHING and im really good at
it too? I thought I was really bad but after a few practices ive gotten really
good. Im so excited to get out there and teach for the next few months!
People always said
that a mission was hard... i don’t know what they are talking about. I haven’t experienced
the hard yet i guess. I am never tired. I go to bed at 930 ish every night
(except last night me and sis Bromley stayed up till 1 talking)... and i wake
up at 5:30 every morning. And its the weirdest thing I am NEVER tired when i
wake up. Instead I am SO full of energy! I love it here. I love it with all my
heart. I thought i would hate the feeling of being in church 24/7 but i
actually have come to LOVE it.
Ok my blow dryer. Catches spits out fire every time i turn
it on. I think it has something to do with the outlets here...
The presidents wife told me I have to take off all my rings.
GAHHHHHHHH. Someone get here and shoot me.
I love it here and i have met some of the most incredible
and most amazing people out here. This is awesome and I hope all of you (brooke
and jack...and hopefully alec) decide to go on a mission one day. This is the
best thing ever.
MEH there is so much more i want to say but I have no time.
I will write again next weekJ
FIRST LETTER AFTER ARRIVING IN AUCKLAND NEW ZEALAND - MTC
MAWMA.
its your favorite daughter. WAZUP. Sorry i didnt call you this morning.
we couldnt find pay phones... lame excuse but... the plane rideS were
really really really good. They each only felt like an hour long. It was
so weird cuz I was on the plane for a total of 20 hours... but it went
by so fast. So on the plane ride to LAX i sat next to this creepy kid
who was like 50-60 years old. And he was telling me how he was a movie
producer and he said hes written a bunch of scripts and then other
producers steal his stuff and make really big popular movies out of it.
When i asked him what movies he wouldnt tell me. little freakazoid was
probably just trying to impress me. So I slept the whole time and then
once I woke up I told him I was going to NZ and he offered to walk me to
my gate and i turned him down cuz i didnt wanna be hanging out with
some old guy i didnt even know. Anyway I got off the plane and i was
standing in line at the information desk and he comes up to me again and
said to me... "here let me walk you to your gate and then i can sit and
hangout with you till you have to board the plane"... and the way he
said it was so weird. But i turned him down and then he said bye to me
and winked at me. I barfed in my moouth a lil.
So then i had to leave the
airport and take a bus to another terminal. So i left the airport and
then i tried to go back in the way i came out cuz i didnt think what i
was doing was right and some security gaurd came and yelled at me. So i
found the bus stop and some girl came over and turns out she was heading
to NZ too. So that was lucky and i stuck with her and I was able to
find my way.
I was standing in line to get
my ticket for the NZ airplane and this philipino couple infront of me
was talking to me about my mission and they asked me how many other
people i was traveling with. I told them around 5. K IM A LIAR PANTS. I
show up at the gate and there are around 30 other missionaries hangin
out waiting to board the same flight as me!
But lemme back up. before i got
to the gate i was standing in the security line and these three guys
who didnt even know eachother were all talking and they were saying how
much they hated america and how much they loved NZ. idk just thought id
throw that in there to make yalz jealous.
Anyway right when i got to the
gate i went up and sat next to sisterwoodburry (one of the girls i had
been talking to on fb) and we totally hit it off. we are like best
frandz now. We got along so well and had so much in common. But there
was one elder we traveled with who gave out a book of mormon and 4 pass
along cards just in the 40 minuites we were waiting to board the plane.
HE WAS LITERALLY ON FIRE.
We got on the airplane and it
was really nice. they all had these wonderful blankets and pillows on
our seats and a pair of beats for each of us to use to listen to
music/watch tv with. jk about the beats.. but they were nice head
phones. Surprisingly I didnt listen to my ipod once. I brought it with
me (with all of my old music on it) but then i thought about it and
decided to not listen to it. I like to discipline myself every now and
then:) I was so proud of myself though... maybe thats why the
plane rides were so quick. The Lord was blessing me... or something.
But the plane ride started out a
lil rough. some baby was screaming her balls off the for the first 30
minuites... but then they started serving supper (they have 4 meals in
NZ- breakfast, lunch, dinner, and supper?) and it decided to be
quiet.For supper I got the steak with zuchini covered in maranara sauce,
some weird potato thing (jk i have no idea what it was), salad, a roll,
some gormet cheese, and a weird purple jello layer dessert thing. I
made it a goal to try everything. So i decided to try the salad first. I
dipped my fork into the salad and got some white thing on the end of it
and popped it in my mouth. Then i started gagging/ coughing so bad cuz i
realized it was chopped up hard boiled egg. After that i decided not to
try the dessert. Weird idk. But i fell asleep on the plane. i tsucked
because the guy infron tof me put his chair all the way back and the
only way for me to sleep is by putting my head on the tray table but
that was impossible to i had to lean my head back. I had a dream that I
couldnt close my jaw (if that makes sense) it was like i had a really
bad over bit/under bite. it was so frustrating and i kept grinding my
teeth. I woke up and my teeth were really sore and my back gums were
bleeding. I think i was doing something crazy with my mouth when i
slept. But i woke up and they were serving breakfast (orange cranberry
muffin, yellow cantelope?, grapes, yogurt and orange juice in a
bowl?friggin weird).
But anyway that was the plane
experience. Im in NZ now. Its freezing cold/rainy/cloudy as heckna here.
And supposedly its snowing in wellington? meh. but i dont go there for
another two weeks. I love all the missionaries i traveled with.
Especially the girls. Im rooming with this one sista now named sister
bromley and we hit it off and we are best friends now.
You know how water picky I am and NZ has the best water i have yet tasted in my life.
Everyone here in the MTC is polynesian...
They are making me play the piano here.growl.
OH and they have different outlets here! I cant plug anything into the walls! haha
They all say Im going to pick up an accent. They say to give it a month.
OK
well i have no time left so see you little baby. I will write you more
later... and by later i mean... next next tuesday... i think.
dont
forget to post that and tell everyone on fb i updated it or somethin.
LOVE YOU BABY FACE AND DAD BOY (send this to dad i dont have his email)
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